Yeah, so do I.
But recently I've been thinking about it and I've come to learn there is a lot of things I don't understand to popular girls and being popular.
#1: Why is it so enjoyable to have everyone up in your business and constantly talking to you all the time. I mean yeah, you might be a social person, but don't you popular girls ever want to be alone for one second of your life? It just seems exhausting trying to connect and talk to people all the time. I would get so irritated and I would just blow up.
#2: Living up to Expectations. Oh my gosh. When you're popular everyone builds up this the character that they think you are. And you have to live up to it or everyone will say you're fake and that you're never yourself. What if you're a bitch but you want to stop being a bitch but then everyone says that you are two-faced and fake? I mean, doesn't that suck? And not to mention that if you wanted to stop being a bitch, it would take forever for everyone to believe you have stopped because of the figure that they think you are.
#3: Drama. I mean, when you're popular, isn't there drama ALL THE TIME!? Girls that want to be more or as popular as you are trying to run you out...what about all of that!?
#4: Haters. Doesn't most of your popularity come from haters? While you're building up this fake persona, people are noticing and are jealous of you succeeding and are trying to break it down. What's the point of being popular when almost everyone despises you? Wouldn't you rather be loved?
#5: Clothes. Okay, this is just from the people in my school or in my city and area. Whatever happened to the popular girls clothing attire from the Movie Mean Girls? I mean, I would understand a little bit more why your popular if you wore CUTE clothes, because then girls would think that your outfit is so cute and think you're an interesting person. But not ONCE have I seen Regina George wear yoga pants & sweatshirt or just jeans and plain top as a full on gorgeous outfit. When I look at all of the popular people around me, I notice that NONE of them actually wear nice clothes. All they do is "scrub". Like, what the fuck?! How are you gaining popularity when you look like a freaking HOBO?! And lately, every time I turn the freaking corner I see a North Face jacket. I mean, no. That's not cute. It's overrated and you don't stick out at all. Why would you want to be like everyone else?
#6: Grades. Do you think its cute to not do your work? To just copy someone else's? Or just have bad grades? Do you think that all of your college scholarships and money is going to come from you being dumb or looking "cute"? Sure you might get away with it now in High School, but wait for real life honey. You'll see.
I know I'm ranting a little bit but a lot of this stuff is just so confusing!! I mean really!?
I'm going to talk about some more of these on my Youtube Channel. But these are just some of them that came to mind today. I honestly can go on and on, but not today. :/
See you guys later, Aae.